Sadness and Sorrow

[weirderraindrop]

Oh Sadness, I feel like crap and I've been crying off and on for the past week and a half, my boyfriend's sick, my friends are busy, my parents are in their own worlds, I feel so alone...

[Maiar]

Go watch some AMV's or some happy-hearted animes. That can do wonders.

[Kouketsu]

Well, I can tell you first hand that you might have been better off posting a little bit more positive stuff, cause I can already forsee negative replies reeking of "Get over it." and "Damn angsty teenagers."

But yeah, I'll slide away from the negative side of things myself. It seems like a minor case of depression more than anything, which should be something that you can get over in no time. Just look to the future, and make sure to smile more. ^_^ Makes the world a better place.

*Notes his lack of any real advice whatsoever*

I'm totally losing my touch.

[Fade]

yeah im pretty sad my self. ive been sad for the past 6 years. dad leaving me. i only see my mom like 1 every 2 weeks. my grandma is dieing. shes like my mom. no one has time for me. i get picked on at school all the time.

the only thing that makes me happy is being alone in my dark room and dreaming of killing ppl and being happy.

[weirderraindrop]

yeah im pretty sad my self. ive been sad for the past 6 years. dad leaving me. i only see my mom like 1 every 2 weeks. my grandma is dieing. shes like my mom. no one has time for me. i get picked on at school all the time.

the only thing that makes me happy is being alone in my dark room and dreaming of killing ppl and being happy.

Yea I know how you feen hon, my dad places everything around his fiance, I've seen my mother three times in the past four years, my grandpa who was like my dad died last christmas (like the day after), people at my last school hated me because I hung out with "the wrong crowd". I know how you feel, and I have time for you, pm me or aim me if you want to talk. I'm always open.

[Kyuu]

Oh Sadness, I feel like crap and I've been crying off and on for the past week and a half, my boyfriend's sick, my friends are busy, my parents are in their own worlds, I feel so alone...

Hey... what do you think the Internet is for? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

[weirderraindrop]

Oh Sadness, I feel like crap and I've been crying off and on for the past week and a half, my boyfriend's sick, my friends are busy, my parents are in their own worlds, I feel so alone...

Hey... what do you think the Internet is for? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Exactly.

[weirderraindrop]

This post wasn't meant to sound like melodramatic moaning, as it looks like, I'm just wanting someone to talk to.

[ShadowScar_BlackWind]

hppiness and sadness corrupts everyone, it is a normal problem to test us how strong we are to handle problems..... sometimes it's hard to accept it but later on we can hadle it all alone..... everyone can feel sadness but it depends on that person if he/she let sadness conquer him/her..... :wink:

[weirderraindrop]

hppiness and sadness corrupts everyone, it is a normal problem to test us how strong we are to handle problems..... sometimes it's hard to accept it but later on we can hadle it all alone..... everyone can feel sadness but it depends on that person if he/she let sadness conquer him/her..... :wink:

Thank you, I feel kinda better now, can I get a hug? *tramples the stranger anyway*

[Fade]

Hugs are always good. I love them because it feels so warm and soothing. Like love.

[Kouketsu]

Well, talk about kinda a downer thread right here. Focusing upon negative things leads to thinking about negative things and eventually acting on negative things. It's a state of mind more than anything, something that can actually be beat, whether it be through other means to get the subject off your mind, straight-out talking about it to get it off your chest, or even false hope, whichever works first. Everyone's got to remember that things get better, no matter how bad they seem to get. If you're ever feeling that sadness or sorry for yourself, you've got to remember that you're still here for a reason (Or at least I hope so), and you should make that reason to make yourself happy first and foremost.

It all really depends on how you take these things. Whether it be talking them all out or taking them off your mind, it would definitely help if everyone stopped feeling sorry for themselves.

And sadness doesn't corrupt everyone. Only those lacking a positive and stable state of mind. It's all on perception, people, all on perception.

[ShadowScar_BlackWind]

hppiness and sadness corrupts everyone, it is a normal problem to test us how strong we are to handle problems..... sometimes it's hard to accept it but later on we can hadle it all alone..... everyone can feel sadness but it depends on that person if he/she let sadness conquer him/her..... :wink:

Thank you, I feel kinda better now, can I get a hug? *tramples the stranger anyway*

huh!.... sure, if that makes you kind a feeling better*embarasse*..... is that ok for your boyfriend*smile* if he knows this he might get angry of me*thinking what would happend to me*.... :wink:

[weirderraindrop]

Well, talk about kinda a downer thread right here. Focusing upon negative things leads to thinking about negative things and eventually acting on negative things. It's a state of mind more than anything, something that can actually be beat, whether it be through other means to get the subject off your mind, straight-out talking about it to get it off your chest, or even false hope, whichever works first. Everyone's got to remember that things get better, no matter how bad they seem to get. If you're ever feeling that sadness or sorry for yourself, you've got to remember that you're still here for a reason (Or at least I hope so), and you should make that reason to make yourself happy first and foremost.

It all really depends on how you take these things. Whether it be talking them all out or taking them off your mind, it would definitely help if everyone stopped feeling sorry for themselves.

And sadness doesn't corrupt everyone. Only those lacking a positive and stable state of mind. It's all on perception, people, all on perception.

Yea, I'm normally the one who says that too, but it's hard sometimes, either way I feel a lot better now.

[Heartless Archangel]

Oh Sadness, I feel like crap and I've been crying off and on for the past week and a half, my boyfriend's sick, my friends are busy, my parents are in their own worlds, I feel so alone...

ohh... i feel sorry for you...
dont worry, girl, everythings gonna be alright, just dont lose hope...

[weirderraindrop]

Oh Sadness, I feel like crap and I've been crying off and on for the past week and a half, my boyfriend's sick, my friends are busy, my parents are in their own worlds, I feel so alone...

ohh... i feel sorry for you...
dont worry, girl, everythings gonna be alright, just dont lose hope...


Thanks a lot, *not looking for pity* but thank you for your consideration. :wink:

[Acep]

Like what everyone said everythings going to be alright...
Don't lose hope and stay calm...
Good luck... :wink:

[weirderraindrop]

Like what everyone said everythings going to be alright...
Don't lose hope and stay calm...
Good luck... :wink:


Thank you a ton. =)

[ShadowScar_BlackWind]

it is my pleasure to help someone with desame problem as mine(but that was before but know im happy being alone) feel free to pm me aniytime weirderraindrop..... if it is about love-life maybe i can give you advice about that matter..... :wink:

[Frozen Shade]

I wasted an entire year of my life crying and feeling sorry for myself.

It taught me a very important lesson...

That...even if you DO have a chemical imbalance in your brain, or even if your life DOES actually suck, you are the only one who has the ability to take the reins, take control, and change it. ;) Easier said than done, I know...but life is too short, and there are too many awesome things to do.

[weirderraindrop]

I wasted an entire year of my life crying and feeling sorry for myself.

It taught me a very important lesson...

That...even if you DO have a chemical imbalance in your brain, or even if your life DOES actually suck, you are the only one who has the ability to take the reins, take control, and change it. ;) Easier said than done, I know...but life is too short, and there are too many awesome things to do.


I'm very sorry to hear that, I feel much better by now, for some reason it feels as if whatever it was that was holding me down has gone away. I don't get like this very often at all, but when I do get down it hits me hard. I think it's getting around that time that only the girls can understand, ya?

[DistantSamurai]

I'm very sorry you're sad.

I know how you feel. When things are wrong aruond me I often get very sad. and I do cry but by myself and mostly at night. I don't liek crying in front of people. yeah ym family is off in so many different directions we never spend much time together anymore. but i don't let it on that my home life is anything less then perfect...then I'll get none stop questions of "is there anything I can do?" or "are you ok?" oh gosh. the last thing I need is people worrying over me. I hate when I make people have to worry over me^___________^

good luck with you sadness. don't worry as long as your willing to let it, sadness always melts away to happiness or at least contentment eventually. trust me. I know^___________^

[weirderraindrop]

I'm very sorry you're sad.

I know how you feel. When things are wrong aruond me I often get very sad. and I do cry but by myself and mostly at night. I don't liek crying in front of people. yeah ym family is off in so many different directions we never spend much time together anymore. but i don't let it on that my home life is anything less then perfect...then I'll get none stop questions of "is there anything I can do?" or "are you ok?" oh gosh. the last thing I need is people worrying over me. I hate when I make people have to worry over me^___________^

good luck with you sadness. don't worry as long as your willing to let it, sadness always melts away to happiness or at least contentment eventually. trust me. I know^___________^



Thank you very much, I'm about to sound like one of those people right now but if you ever need to talk about anything PM me ok? I'm one hell of a listener, and I can relate with a LOT of things that are ****ed up, so if you ever need to talk, remember me ok? I'm always here as a shoulder to cry on...even if you are halfway across the world or country. ^_6

[_Paradox_]

well, when i feel lonely, I go post at an anime forum.....wait..... :lol:

[Rinnu]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.

[weirderraindrop]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

[Rinnu]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

No, I'll stay to the outside. I like it this way better, I've been nice, but I can't hold it on for long.

[gutchun]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

No, I'll stay to the outside. I like it this way better, I've been nice, but I can't hold it on for long.

ill prob agree with you in that 'being alone is a part of life' and that you have to 'get used to it', but i cant help but disagree with the fact you think that people will always remain alone.
i cant remember who said it, i think it was a teacher, so i obviously wasn't paying too much attention, but he said that humans beings are social creatures. i tend to go along with that cause when your sad you'll tend to look for someone to talk to and the same goes for when your happy.

[Rinnu]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

No, I'll stay to the outside. I like it this way better, I've been nice, but I can't hold it on for long.

ill prob agree with you in that 'being alone is a part of life' and that you have to 'get used to it', but i cant help but disagree with the fact you think that people will always remain alone.
i cant remember who said it, i think it was a teacher, so i obviously wasn't paying too much attention, but he said that humans beings are social creatures. i tend to go along with that cause when your sad you'll tend to look for someone to talk to and the same goes for when your happy.

Humans are social... then I must not be human... Don't tell me to 'get use to it' because you don't know me.

[gutchun]

sorry but i think you've misunderstood me, im not saying you should get used to not being alone, au countre im trying to say that people need to try not to be less dependant on others, but at the same time it'd be wrong turn way from people all together. nevermind, wasnt trying to start an argument

[Rinnu]

sorry but i think you've misunderstood me, im not saying you should get used to not being alone, au countre im trying to say that people need to try not to be less dependant on others, but at the same time it'd be wrong turn way from people all together. nevermind, wasnt trying to start an argument

It's okay. I'm not offened, just cold hearted. Don't take me personally.

[weirderraindrop]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

No, I'll stay to the outside. I like it this way better, I've been nice, but I can't hold it on for long.

Whatever floats your boat kid, it's a live and learn situation. Oh well.

[weirderraindrop]

sorry but i think you've misunderstood me, im not saying you should get used to not being alone, au countre im trying to say that people need to try not to be less dependant on others, but at the same time it'd be wrong turn way from people all together. nevermind, wasnt trying to start an argument


lol It's okay I don't care, I understand what you're trying to say.

[yankee2110]

Damn angsty teenager. Get over it.

...that was for Kouketsu


Now on a more serious note. I'm sure things look bleak right now but in the future will look back on your misery and wonder how you could have been such a typical teen. I'm not trying to down play your current emotional state but show you that things can't really be all that bad.

Also, have you tried talking to your parents? Many times teens get the "parents just don't understand mentality". What you need to realize is that they were teens at one point. Everyone has been through it. You aren't alone. What about friends or other family members?

Oh, Frozen Shade, that is one of the most intelligent things I ever heard you say. I believe that everyone needs to have this same outlook on life. I realized longa go that I had the power to change my life and state affairs.

[weirderraindrop]

Being alone is a prt of life. You are and always will be alone. One thing I can say is:
Get use to it! It will always be there!
I welcome the feeling of being alone. I brings satisafction to my soul. Don't push it away, imbrase it.


I know this, and no, you're not always alone. You find people that share your same interests, that you care for and that care for you in return. That's a part of life that somebody of your age should embrace more than thinking you'll always be alone. Give it a few years, you'll understand where I'm coming from.

No, I'll stay to the outside. I like it this way better, I've been nice, but I can't hold it on for long.

ill prob agree with you in that 'being alone is a part of life' and that you have to 'get used to it', but i cant help but disagree with the fact you think that people will always remain alone.
i cant remember who said it, i think it was a teacher, so i obviously wasn't paying too much attention, but he said that humans beings are social creatures. i tend to go along with that cause when your sad you'll tend to look for someone to talk to and the same goes for when your happy.

Humans are social... then I must not be human... Don't tell me to 'get use to it' because you don't know me.

The whole 'You don't know me' thing is a really bad argument, You hear it all the time on Maury, Jenny Jones, Jerry Springer, and the list goes on. You're not even in high school yet, high school is where you learn a lot about who you are, most people even totally change, so you never know. Be patient, stop jumping to such conclusions, as far as age goes, you don't really know who you are to become yet...like I said...just be patient.

[weirderraindrop]

Damn angsty teenager. Get over it.

...that was for Kouketsu


Now on a more serious note. I'm sure things look bleak right now but in the future will look back on your misery and wonder how you could have been such a typical teen. I'm not trying to down play your current emotional state but show you that things can't really be all that bad.

Also, have you tried talking to your parents? Many times teens get the "parents just don't understand mentality". What you need to realize is that they were teens at one point. Everyone has been through it. You aren't alone. What about friends or other family members?

Oh, Frozen Shade, that is one of the most intelligent things I ever heard you say. I believe that everyone needs to have this same outlook on life. I realized longa go that I had the power to change my life and state affairs.

I have tried talking to my dad, yes, he's told me there's just some things he'd rather not know. At that time, my friends were off doing their own thing so I had nobody to talk to *weekend feelings*. Everything's gotten basically better now, I've been hurt a hell of a lot so I just needed somewhere's to vent it and see what people have to respond with, thanks. ^_6