Arguments

[Bataeu]

Has anyone ever been in a huge fight (argument- no physical contact) about something? It doesn't matter who it was with or how silly/stupid it was.

Myself I've never had an argument with my lover, we are just so likeminded and easy going it's not funny... 8)

As for a friend- she invited me over to her place one night to hang out and go to a sexpo the day after, but because it was raining and stormy that night and I didn't know where her place was (she had just moved), I told her I'd go up and see her the day after and not that night.
She got all psycho telling me that if it was my boifriend that I'd go up in a heartbeat- no hesitation, and that I'd ditch her for him and that he monopolises my time... Well, I told her that I didn't know where she lived and it would be hard for me to find the place on a stormy night, and that I wouldn't feel safe to drive and read directions at the same time.
Well, she just kept going on and on and on... Then she finally goes, "Sorry. I've had a bad day."
I was all like, we all have our bad days but we don't go about taking them out on our friends...
So we solved that one quite sensibly- although we never went to the sexpo. after that we kinda lost interest in it...

[Kyuu]

Well... let's just say that I've turned a good thing into something bad because I've always end up verbally fighting with this person one week after another... :roll:

Yup, I was retarded... :roll:

[Innotech]

clumsy me. and my perfectionist father. enough said.

[Kouketsu]

Arguments are like my second past-time next to running. I feel so comfortable with things like arguing and debating, although so many feel the need to call it "immature". I can't even count how many times I've given it a go. Old girlfriends, although those were good-natured arguments that ended in nights of laughing (Have you ever argued on who's the bigger Tokyo Babylon fan with a loved one? Quite the night that was. *sigh* I was so stupid back then.)

And then I've had real arguments, or I should say I have them. All the time. On a daily basis. I'm not confrontational or anything, I just love arguing over things, no matter how stupid. Great way to pass the time. The other day me and a few friends had an argument brought up on the possibility of absence of time in our world. We then proceeded that with an argument on who has a better voice, me or my friend Jake. So you know, it goes all over the place.

Only "bad" argument I've ever gotten into was with my father about how much time I spend out of the house and not working. Needless to say I totally pwned him, but we never really recovered from that one and our lasting hatred for one another lasts to this day, and we're both way too thick-headed to ever change that.

[Shian Kiri]

I got into a few arguments with my gf.

Its mostly because we were worried that we weren't staying true to our relationship. But we worked it all out. Most of our arguements are about our relationship, because there is so much uncertainty.

(Note of advice: Online Relationships are SUPER hard! >_< )

[DistantSamurai]

I can be a really agreeable person mos tof the time but when I have something to say I will definately say it. I liek to sya whats on my mind and once i met a guy that couldn't handle that adn told me to keep quiet. I blew up. I cussed at him and we haven't talked since. its kinda ok with me cause people like that don't get laong with me for very long anyways. But i don't like arguments and I stay very neutral within my group of friends and amongst other people...^____________^

[Bataeu]

But i don't like arguments and I stay very neutral within my group of friends and amongst other people...^____________^

Thats a good descision. When my Dad and bro in law had a huge argument they didn't want to know about each other anymore. Makes it hard at Christmas and stuff coz they don't wanna c each other again. It was such a stupid argument for both of them, and they've f*cked a part of our family up. I'm neutral on this because I don't wanna get dragged into it. I'm not on anyone's side, because as far as I'm concerned it's over. It was just a stupid argument, and if they don't wanna realise that and both be thickheaded about it, then whatever. I am pissed off that it's torn a hole into our family (in a way), but I try not to think about it.
It's their stubbornness that got them where they are now.

[inukai]

i love to argue! mwahaha! but seriously though... anyways, i once got into a huge argument with my mom. our argument turned into a physical fight when i called her a b*tch. anyways, she ended kicking me out of the house. what did we argue about? something stupid that isn't worth mentioning...

[Pacifica.]

I get in big fights with my parents sometimes but it always goes back to normal after about a week. We usually never try to solve it (at least i dont) i just dont talk and try to stay outta the house (very sad i know)
Sometimes iget in fights with friends but we usually chill out aftah about an hour

[Dtp1987]

Bleh...I haven't been in a serious argument in years...In theory (My theory ^_~), in order to have an argument, you would have to be very serious about a stance or be so involved and overly-serious in a realtionship that it creates "Drama." And I have niether. (Well, I have strong stances, but I guess that I have come to the point where I agree to disagree with just about everyone.) ^_~

[Vetallo]

I get into arguments when i try to defend things that shouldn't really be a big deal.

[Acep]

Actually, I got a big argument with a friend... we did not talk for about two years... but we're friends now. Arguments sometimes could be stupid. :lol: