little problem...

[Ayeka]

Okay, as some of you may know I used to go out with Aiodaisei, who used to be a member on here, and got banned. The only other thing about him i'm going to say is that I live in Philly, he lives in bumblef*** Iowa. the distance- and the fact that he was a little boring- was why i decided to call it quits.

Moving on to my problem; I have a boyfriend who I love, who only lives like 25 minutes away. We've been going out for 3 months, and everything's just peachy between us. Like, he's the cheese to my macaroni, the yin to my yang. we're just perfect.

In like Maine, there's this other guy that I've known for 8 years that i kinda like. And I've really liked him all these years.

Now, I love my boyfriend- but I like this other guy... what should i do...?

[Shiki-Sensei]

You've everything you need in the here and now so stick with that instead of risking it to find out he might not be interested in women or might not be worth it.

[sl33py]

If you are having a great boyfriend, I suggest you don't start getting all greedy. The grass is always gonna look way greener on the other side. I say just take what you have and keep it.

[Vessicator]

Keep your boyfriend. Just get another boyfriend.

[Pinky The Blue Flamingo]

I think if you're willing to give someone up for a "maybe", or even seriously thinking about it. I have doubts that you love them as much as you think you do.

[Neferium]

stick with boyfriend theres a chance the other guy isn't who he used to be.

[Haruhi Suzumiya]

Stick with the awesome boyfriend
and say nuts to the other dude.
have some self control, it ain't hard sister.
it takes a little patience and commitment from your part
but anyone can do it, just don't give in to your urges.

[Johnny Uncouth]

Okay, as some of you may know I used to go out with Aiodaisei, who used to be a member on here, and got banned. The only other thing about him i'm going to say is that I live in Philly, he lives in bumblef*** Iowa. the distance- and the fact that he was a little boring- was why i decided to call it quits.

You can't date yourself. This is a feeble attempt to make us think you could get a girlfriend.

[ray15]

Well three months is a short time to be telling someone you love them but I do it, lol. But my words have no meaning :sleeping:

Well since you're boyfriend lives kind of close, and you're both perfect for each other. The other guy might be a mistake, you don't know how things would be with him yet.
Just stick with you're boyfriend until l you decide to call it quits or he does then do what you wanna

[motley crue]

Like everyone else sais, just stay with him. you already like him that much.

[Kouketsu]

Okay, as some of you may know I used to go out with Aiodaisei, who used to be a member on here, and got banned. The only other thing about him i'm going to say is that I live in Philly, he lives in bumblef*** Iowa. the distance- and the fact that he was a little boring- was why i decided to call it quits.

You can't date yourself. This is a feeble attempt to make us think you could get a girlfriend.

This was ****ing brilliant.

OT: If you're doubting your current relationship enough to want to try things with some guy who lives ****ing far away in another state, I highly doubt your current relationship is going good enough to even keep it in the first place. Don't settle.

[Ayeka]

You can't date yourself. This is a feeble attempt to make us think you could get a girlfriend.


sweetie, i'm not Aiodaisei if that's what you're thinking...
if you want further proof, message me, and i'll send you links to both my myspace and my facebook.

and to actually contribute to this thread...
thank you all, i will stay with my boyfriend because he's fab and awesome and he's totally cute and he thinks i'm amazing *sigh* i just can't go on about him enough... i dunno, i guess i just remembered the memories i had with the other guy, when we were younger, and that's what drew me to him... i'm gonna stay with the bf, though.

[Shiki-Sensei]

My secks life is "fab" as well.

as such.....

http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj162/DJ_redfox/skeletorapproves.jpg (javascript:void(0);)

In all seriousness, good for you Ay, I've not heard or seen the word "Fab" in a long time.

[chibiurd07]

Crushes aren't worth it....

when you have a boyfriend....

[Caeles]

Don't give up on something great. Once you let a wonderful person go they won't come back. You might just lose something wonderful.

Say you dump him for a guy you LIKE. If the guy you like doesn't return your feelings you just dumped someone who loved you and now you're alone.

Be loved? Or be alone?

I'd chose love. ;o

[Vault 45]

I`m thinking...

No...

Just...No...

No...

I mean...You know what I mean, right?

No...

Just...Just don`t.

No...

[Caeles]

I`m thinking...

No...

Just...No...

No...

I mean...You know what I mean, right?

No...

Just...Just don`t.

No...

I understand completely : D

<3

[Ayeka]

I`m thinking...

No...

Just...No...

No...

I mean...You know what I mean, right?

No...

Just...Just don`t.

No...

i'm sorry, but what the hell are you talking about?

[Ayeka]

My secks life is "fab" as well.

as such.....

http://i272.photobucket.com/albums/jj162/DJ_redfox/skeletorapproves.jpg (http://javascript<b></b>:void(0);)

In all seriousness, good for you Ay, I've not heard or seen the word "Fab" in a long time.


sweetie, i'm not Ai. what part of that don't you get? i just went out with him, but i'm not him. i am a girl named steph, so... yeah.

[Shiki-Sensei]

sweetie, i'm not Ai. what part of that don't you get? i just went out with him, but i'm not him. i am a girl named steph, so... yeah.

You obviously did not read my pronunciation of a shortened form of your name correctly. I said "Ay", not "Ai", so don't play the "you're clueless, aren't you?" card with me. I know you went out with him and I know you are not him. You just took what I called you in a different manner.

"Ay"eka

not

"Ai"odaisei.

I'm being as civil as I can about this so I ask that you do the same instead of coming off as rude.

[Caeles]

Nana will chop you. ;_;

[Ayeka]

You obviously did not read my pronunciation of a shortened form of your name correctly. I said "Ay", not "Ai", so don't play the "you're clueless, aren't you?" card with me. I know you went out with him and I know you are not him. You just took what I called you in a different manner.

"Ay"eka

not

"Ai"odaisei.

I'm being as civil as I can about this so I ask that you do the same instead of coming off as rude.

my apologies, but everytime i even mention Aiodaisei, everyone starts attacking him, through extension of me. he's still one of my close friends, and i get extremely defensive of all my friends. So, I do not mean to lash out at anyone, it's just i don't like anyone making fun of my friends.

[Shiki-Sensei]

my apologies, but everytime i even mention Aiodaisei, everyone starts attacking him, through extension of me. he's still one of my close friends, and i get extremely defensive of all my friends. So, I do not mean to lash out at anyone, it's just i don't like anyone making fun of my friends.

You have nothing to worry about. I fight for my friends IRL all the time. Why do you think I work as an instructor?

[Ayeka]

an instructor of what? like drill instructor?

[Shiki-Sensei]

an instructor of what? like drill instructor?

Martial Arts. heh, would I be here if I was a Drill Instructor?

Pay's good, and my students are well-disciplined.

[Blood-Katana]

Just cut it in half.

[TypeZERO]

My best friend passed up a young, beautiful, intelligent, rich girl over one of his exs' whom was none of those things. In the end, he ended up losing his beauty and getting dumped by his ex once again. Stick with what you have now. You're blessed with a great guy who you can actually see whenever you want to. Don't throw it all away.

[Desuka Kira]

You answered yourself in her own post. Keep your guy, and treasure him.

That's the only way to deal with relations.

Plus, the other guy can be a back-up plan.

[Vessicator]

If you're not 30+ and looking to settle down, why give a ****? Looking for love is such a foolhardy thing to do when it'll come looking for you later.

[zarenth]

If you're not 30+ and looking to settle down, why give a ****? Looking for love is such a foolhardy thing to do when it'll come looking for you later.

this is not always true, also love may have already found her. i would stay with the person you love. there is no problem with liking someone when you love someone else, the problem resonates when you make the wrong decision. what i am trying to say here is use your heart, find the one you love most and go for it.

[Vessicator]

If love has already found her, then she would have no doubt in who she should be with.

[_emilya_]

love and like... is there any difference?

[Fish Feet]

I have a boyfriend who I love, who only lives like 25 minutes away. We've been going out for 3 months, and everything's just peachy between us. Like, he's the cheese to my macaroni, the yin to my yang. we're just perfect.


Now, I love my boyfriend-

I think you just answered your own question.

Also, lol, Aiodaisei. What a creepy creepo.

[EmpressStephanie]

Dump 'em both and go back to dating Aio - he's a catch.

[JinKaze]

love and like... is there any difference?
I like my boss at work, but I don't love her.

[Ian the Korean]

Dump 'em both and go back to dating Aio - he's a catch.

Ahahahaha, he's certainly a catch...






















...if you work for the FBI!

[Kouketsu]

Ba-dum-ching!

Oh boy, zingers for the ages.

[Ayeka]

Ahahahaha, he's certainly a catch...






















...if you work for the FBI!


oh, leave him be. he's just... different(?) or eccentric(?)... he's a catagory unto himself, i think. but he's a good guy. just not exactly my type... and i'll just leave it at that.

[JinKaze]

oh, leave him be. he's just... different(?) or eccentric(?)... he's a catagory unto himself, i think. but he's a good guy. just not exactly my type... and i'll just leave it at that.
I have no idea why the **** you have to make it known all the time that you once dated Aiodaisei - this thread could've done perfectly well without that, but no, you had to bring him up again and start the inevitable (and absolutely hilarious) jokes. Why? It's pointless, and quite stupid.

[Ayeka]

I have no idea why the **** you have to make it known all the time that you once dated Aiodaisei - this thread could've done perfectly well without that, but no, you had to bring him up again and start the inevitable (and absolutely hilarious) jokes. Why? It's pointless, and quite stupid.


i only brought him up to illustrate that i live in philly, and he lives in bumblef*** Iowa. And the other guy that i like lives far away, too. and one of the main reasons i broke up with Aiodaisei was the distance. THAT, love, is why i brought him up. not to initiate jokes. not to provoke idiots like you. to prove a point that long distance relationships are difficult. period.

and another thing- if you don't like my thread, you don't have to read it, let alone respond to it and insult not only myself, but my friend. so, if you don't mind- piss off.

[JinKaze]

i only brought him up to illustrate that i live in philly, and he lives in bumblef*** Iowa. And the other guy that i like lives far away, too. and one of the main reasons i broke up with Aiodaisei was the distance. THAT, love, is why i brought him up. not to initiate jokes. not to provoke idiots like you. to prove a point that long distance relationships are difficult. period.

and another thing- if you don't like my thread, you don't have to read it, let alone respond to it and insult not only myself, but my friend. so, if you don't mind- piss off.
It's not your thread that I dislike, I'm actually trying to figure out why you keep doing this, when you know the jokes will happen. I mean, it happens every single time. It won't ever stop. I'm not even making any jokes, so don't ***** at me for that. This thing about proving the point that long distance relationships are difficult is unnecessary - most people already know, and you could have proved it without risking the derailment of your thread by bringing up the much maligned Aido.

Honestly, where did you even get this stuff about me not liking your thread? You took me completely out of context.

As to the thread itself, I was going to reply before, but everyone else had already said what I was going to say, which was nothing more than "stick with the boyfriend you already have, if you like him so much." Simple as that.

[Ayeka]

barely anything contains him, so i don't know where you're getting that statistic from.
and i was using a personal example- so don't b**** about that.
and i knew what i was getting myself into with mentioning Aio (don't feel like typing it out). and if people don't like him that much, that's on them, and it's also kind of immature.

and as to make actual conversation in this thread- as i've already said- i'm just going to stick with my boyfriend, because he's fab and i loves him.

[Ian the Korean]

Haha, it isn't immaturity, he is/was a pedophile on the FBIs watchlist a couple years back and attempted and I believe succeeded at finding out personal information of many of the adolescents on this site. He crossed several lines regarding my personal life he shouldn't have, and I think he is a danger to himself and others around him and needs to be locked up in some sort of institution. It's as simple as that.

You honestly could have left it at 'one of my exes was also a long distance relationship' instead of specifically mentioning aiodaisei, so apparently you did so for attention reasons.

[BuddyLee]

This was ****ing brilliant.



I was saying that Aio = Ayeka months ago.

Give me credit please. I need to be acknowledged from time to time.

[ZoMbiE]

Man, I'm still pissed I wasn't really here at the time Aio was skulking around these forums. I have a feeling that watching a pedo work his magic on the kids at A4 was hilarious, and I missed it.

[BuddyLee]

Man, I'm still pissed I wasn't really here at the time Aio was skulking around these forums. I have a feeling that watching a pedo work his magic on the kids at A4 was hilarious, and I missed it.

The search function is your friend.

Too bad there aren't any chat logs around. That's where he really unleashed the inner "I want to **** the **** out of a 12 year old."

[ZoMbiE]

I suppose I could go through his post history, but it's just not the same as being there in real time to egg the situation on. I could have been convincing those kids that they can trust Aio, and pushing Aio to be more aggressive with the kids.

I would have had a great time with that whole situation.

[Tetsu.]

You dated Aiodaisei. XD

err anyways, stick with your boyfriend. just because you get to see him more often and do more stuff other then sitting on the computer typing "<3" and "*hug*" like most online relationships. :P

[Ayeka]

Okay. yes, he likes his girls young. And he might come off as kind of creepy sometimes, but honestly, have any of you ever seriously talked to him? And he's not on any lists. He's not a registered pedophile. He's just... different. I don't know how else to put him. And as for looking up personal information- if you put anything up on your own profile, or if you tell someone your personal stuff, then the fault is yours alone. After that, you find out that that person is creepy, then you do something about it, but if you are the one going around telling stuff, then you have nothing to complain about. And yes, perhaps he has crossed some lines- it's happened with me, too, so i can sympathize. I know how it feels to have some creepy questions asked or stuff. Just calmly, but firmly deal with it. Don't make fun. Don't insult, because what does that say of yourself as a person. Rise above it. Be the bigger person. And no, he doesn't want to f*** the s*** out of a 12 year old. I've talked to him. I went out with him. He doesn't want to f*** anything until marriage. I think I know a little more about that department than anyone else on this forum. And yeah, I mentioned his name personally, because many of the people on this forum know that I went out with him, already. If people don't like it, then that's their business. That's their opinions, but you do not go attacking my friends in front of me, where I can read it. If anyone has a problem with either him or I, they better get the balls to do it in front of my face.

[Ian the Korean]

Okay. yes, he likes his girls young. And he might come off as kind of creepy sometimes, but honestly, have any of you ever seriously talked to him? And he's not on any lists. He's not a registered pedophile. He's just... different. I don't know how else to put him. And as for looking up personal information- if you put anything up on your own profile, or if you tell someone your personal stuff, then the fault is yours alone. After that, you find out that that person is creepy, then you do something about it, but if you are the one going around telling stuff, then you have nothing to complain about. And yes, perhaps he has crossed some lines- it's happened with me, too, so i can sympathize. I know how it feels to have some creepy questions asked or stuff. Just calmly, but firmly deal with it. Don't make fun. Don't insult, because what does that say of yourself as a person. Rise above it. Be the bigger person. And no, he doesn't want to f*** the s*** out of a 12 year old. I've talked to him. I went out with him. He doesn't want to f*** anything until marriage. I think I know a little more about that department than anyone else on this forum. And yeah, I mentioned his name personally, because many of the people on this forum know that I went out with him, already. If people don't like it, then that's their business. That's their opinions, but you do not go attacking my friends in front of me, where I can read it. If anyone has a problem with either him or I, they better get the balls to do it in front of my face.

No seriously, he was internet detectiving info on my younger sisters way back when and he's spoken to me on the phone before, dude is a creepy pedophile. It's cool if you want to lie and defend him, I'm not trying to bash you for having the misfortune of dating him or anything. I just know quite a lot about him beyond his forum persona.

[Ayeka]

What, and i don't? I've known the dude for almost 4 years now. Yeah, I know he likes younger girls and, no I don't condone it. I think it's weird, and I've commented many times, to which i receive the answer "oh, they're just cute" or something along those lines... it's weird, but i'm not going to write him off for that. I'm not lying or anything, but since he cannot defend himself, I will have to do so on his behalf. It wasn't a misfortune dating him. The distance, and him weirding me out a bit... not to mention the fact that he thinks I'm a slut just because I'm not exactly an uber-virgin, they were reasons why i called it quits. I know a lot about him, too... some things i wished i didn't know, but i do.

[Ian the Korean]

What, and i don't? I've known the dude for almost 4 years now. Yeah, I know he likes younger girls and, no I don't condone it. I think it's weird, and I've commented many times, to which i receive the answer "oh, they're just cute" or something along those lines... it's weird, but i'm not going to write him off for that. I'm not lying or anything, but since he cannot defend himself, I will have to do so on his behalf. It wasn't a misfortune dating him. The distance, and him weirding me out a bit... not to mention the fact that he thinks I'm a slut just because I'm not exactly an uber-virgin, they were reasons why i called it quits. I know a lot about him, too... some things i wished i didn't know, but i do.

And I've known him for 5 or 6. And I've known him since before you did. I was privy to a lot of things he said and did on the forum in chat that didn't exist by the time you joined. Again, I'm not suggesting you "write him off" or whatever, I could give a **** how you personally choose to treat him.

I'm not however going to allow you to suggest he is anything other than a pedophile and whether or not you want to believe it. He was in fact in an FBI watch list briefly back in late 2003 or early 2004. I have no idea where I'd currently be able to find that info archived since the tip was given anonymously and I don't know if they actually acted on it, but it is a fact no matter what you think or if he lied to you about it.

Not going to get into a pissing match here either over a banned user who needs counciling, feel free to reply back and deny everything again if it makes you feel better. Good luck with your current boyfriend.

[Ayeka]

well, if you or anyone could find me that information, then i'd be more keen to believe the aligations. i might not want to believe, but... force me to.

and thank you for the 'current bf' statement.

[Vessicator]

I love this thread.

[crn_hzl]

Wow. The presence of Aio lives on. That guy was ancient history :0 I guess he really succeeded in having his name out thar.

D:

[Shannon Apple]

Okay, I am all for free speech and everything. BUT...why on earth would you bring up the subject of this person when you know the community's opinion of him. I'm thinking it was for the attention because all you were going to get was negatives. I'm sorry but there is only one name for people like your "friend" who seek out information about young teens. I actually feel sorry for you if you believe all that stuff about him being just "different" and that he finds children cute, I feel sick at that thought. He's your friend that's fine, but leave that stuff at home.

People like that need to be locked up and should not be defended on a public forum with young members. This person is nothing more than a paedo and anyone who seeks personal information through PM should be reported right away.

I wish you luck in your current relationship and hope everything goes well for you.....but you shouldn't have brought that up. :?

[VictorianTragedy]

Definitely stick with your boyfriend. If you really "like" this guy, it shouldn't be the reason to dump the one you "love". Love is more powerful than like. Because, if it doesn't work out with the one you really "Like", the one you "love" won't come back to you if you still love him. So, please, don't give up something good for something that "may" be good. It's not worth it.

[Ayeka]

yeah, well, aside from the whole mini flame war everyone started, thanx for the advice and i'm gonna stay with my bf.

[Caeles]

I love this thread.



I agree ;o